CONSCIOUS COUPLING

Your relationship just feels right. In your partner's presence you feel companionship and connection, couple with a level of commitment that all together shows you that you want to nurture and nourish this. Maybe this is on the heels of past relationship wounds that haven’t healed completely – so you’re afraid of repeating those painful experiences. Despite your greatest efforts, love and self-awareness, you’ve gotten stuck in a holding pattern – circling the same issues, having the same fights, and you see the unity chipping away. Something needs to give, but you don’t know where the block is, and your mind can’t make much sense of it. You work so hard to understand each other but someone always leaves feeling fundamentally unheard.

 

Whatever might be happening, even if you aren’t having any “issues” as such, you feel like the chord you strike with your partner could be much more melodious – that you can go even further into deep states of bliss, intimacy, and strength as a unit!

 

Spiritual, emotional and mental alignment in a relationship can heal an immense amount of our own issues if done with consciousness and openness to genuine change. Aligning with the guidance of our heart-mind, where the deeper vulnerabilities of all the people in the relationship are honoured, creates an attuned relationship. We give each other a safe container where we move towards understanding ourselves and helping each other grow. In such a space, we are real: we allow ourselves to be fresh, in tune, magical. We all have some debris that can prevent this authenticity.

 

But when we are real with ourselves – real about where our behaviour comes from – our authenticity radiates and makes others want to come into tune with it. Deep down nobody wants to hide, nobody really wants to be out of sync with themselves. This synchronisation makes space for immense connection. But it’s not always easy to know the right way to open up to it, to know what’s actually happening versus what’s “in your head”, and above all, how to stay centered and grounded through this opening of our hearts. Because when we’re around the people we love so dearly, we can be impulsive, insensitive, self-protective. The situation gets away from us before we know what’s even happening, despite our best efforts!

 

Our inner children, our inner critics, our inner protectors – all live their own lives, have their own thoughts, which tend to hide in the shadows. Our shadows, our darkness, is only that which we can’t see because there’s no light of awareness there. But we feel them as they play out in our connections. Wouldn’t it be great to see? To be aware, so that we can act from the light?

We’ve designed this program to help you deeply tune into your core self, and the combined soul that your relationship forms (and trust me – a relationship is a living, breathing being). Let’s iron out the points of suffering, where the friction really comes from, where the gaps in understanding are. You’ll learn to relate to each other and support each other to be the best and most authentic versions of yourselves. This also means learning to hold an idea of the other at their highest, and helping them align with that when they get off track. Every relationship is sacred, by which I mean it is a little piece of the universe’s magic that is helping to create so much goodness in the world.

 

It can be hard to see how to treat it like that, and that’s what I’m here to help you do!