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a space for Black sexual trauma survivors

EMBODIED PLEASURE

a day retreat to connect, explore & reclaim

St. Louis, MO | April 26, 2025 | 8 am - 7 pm CST

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we're setting the intention for you to...

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feel more comfortable talking about sex

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feel more confident when expressing your needs and desires

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be more empowered in the sex you're having

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explore sexual communication skills and setting boundaries

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deepen the connection to your sexual self

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what we're doing

opening a space for Black women, femmes, and non-binary survivors to be curious, get clarity, and feel connection

your retreat facilitators

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Rafaella (she/ella)

Sex & Trauma Therapist

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Melony (she/her)

Sex & Trauma Therapist

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Mystkue (she/her)

Sexologist & Educator​

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what we've got for you

  • a unique and intimate retreat space

  • community of folx with similar experiences

  • interactive and mindful activities to help you reconnect and explore

  • a trauma-informed and pleasure-first approach

  • delicious food in a modern space

  • gift bag with sensual goodies

where we'll meet

We are being hosted by Conflux, the historic Carondelet School in South St. Louis.

 

8221 Minnesota Ave, St. Louis, MO 63111

all attendees receive a signed copy of

body rites
by dr. shena j. young

a written companion & workbook for readers seeking to reclaim their bodies as home in healing from sexual trauma

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this is for you if you're ready to...

  • Be in a calming space with like-minded individuals.

  • Reclaim you sense of self and begin tapping into your sexual energy.

  • Redefine what sex means to YOU and the role it plays in your life.

  • Release the weight of sexual expectations and center yourself.

  • Experience the power of sound healing and movement.

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what we're eating

There will be a continental breakfast that includes pastries, bagels and fruit.

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Snacks will be available throughout the day.

 

We are partnering with Melvin Catering to provide a delicious and nutritious lunch.

 

 

All food options, from meat to plant-based, will be available.

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we've also included

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1-on-1 pre-session

In this virtual session, we'll explore your goals and vision for attending this event.

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Group pre-session

Since we'll spend a full day together, we want to meet virtually, connect, and vibe before the retreat.

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1-on-1 post-session

In this one-hour session, we'll create a short and long-term plan to continue the healing journey.

Capture the Day

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Here's what we have planned for our time together!

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  • Event check-in + Welcome

  • Creative mind mapping

  • Movement

  • Breathwork

  • Sound healing

  • Intimacy skill building

  • Sensual embodiment

  • Touch + communication skills

  • Reclaiming and visualization

  • Reflection + wrap-up

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Frequently Asked Questions

1.  Who is a good fit for this retreat?

This retreat might be a good fit for you if you are a sexual trauma survivor and are looking for a space to connect with other survivors and explore activities and tools for growth. You do not have to have done prior work on sexual trauma in therapy or have experience with meditation to attend this retreat. You will be invited to participate in holistic wellness tools to support your individual processing and educational activities to dive into your individual experiences and needs. If you are seeking personal or clinical therapy then this retreat is not for you. We can't wait to meet you!

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​Important notes:

  • While the facilitators are licensed clinicians, the Embodied Pleasure Retreat is NOT group therapy. It is important that you arrive to the retreat in a stable state with the intention of using the retreat for connection, exploration, and growth.

  • The Embodied Pleasure Retreat is for Black women, femmes, non-binary, and trans women only. Thank you for respecting the intentional space we are creating.

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2. ​How old do you have to be to attend this retreat?

This retreat is for individuals who are at least 18 years old.


3. Are you able to accommodate those with specific medical conditions, limited mobility, hearing impaired or blind?

Conflux is an ADA compliant building. There is a large restroom that is wheelchair accessible and equipped with grab bars. There are flat surfaces and an elevator available for public use. For hearing impaired/deaf attendees and those with care/support workers, we invite you to attend with your interpreter and/or support worker at no additional cost. For those with specific medical concerns, needs, or requests, please contact us at admin@healingxchg.com.

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4. Can I bring my children with me to the retreat?

We are unable to accommodate children during the retreat.

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5. How can I prepare for the retreat?

​We ask that you book and attend your individual and group sessions that are included with registration. Other than that, just come with an open mind and heart!

 

6. What to expect after booking the retreat? 

Upon registration, you will receive an email with instructions for booking your individual and group pre-sessions. As the date of the retreat approaches, you will receive emails on specifics relevant to your trip. 

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7. Is my retreat refundable?

This retreat is fully refundable until March 26, 2025. We strongly suggest that attendees review their calendar to make sure they are available. Once you've confirmed you're available, we advise you to mark it in your calendar to ensure that you don't double-book yourself for April 26, 2025. If you are unable to attend a retreat after the March 26th, we encourage you to consider transferring your ticket to someone else. To transfer your registration, please contact us at admin@healingxchg.com.

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-Space is Limited-

​Discount Price
​$495

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for those who need a discounted rate in order to attend the retreat

​Standard Price
​$595

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for those who can afford the full cost of attendance without a discount

​Supporter Price
​$695

 

for those with the financial privilege to support the discounted rate for others

Payment plans available at checkout.

Luggage and Woman's Stuff

Traveling to St. Louis

The retreat space is located within a residential area with several options for AirBnB rentals.

 

Below are a few close lodging options with approximate distance from the retreat space.
 

 

 

Otherwise, consider hotels located in the St. Louis Downtown area (zip codes 63102, 63103), which is about 8 to 10 miles away, depending on the hotel.

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Transportation into St. Louis:

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19.5 miles from retreat space​

8.2 miles from retreat space​​

Accessibility

Conflux is an ADA compliant building. There is a large restroom that is wheelchair accessible and equipped with grab bars. There are flat surfaces and an elevator available for public use. For hearing impaired/deaf attendees and those with care/support workers, we invite you to attend with your interpreter and/or support worker at no additional cost. For those with specific medical concerns, needs, or requests, please contact us at admin@healingxchg.com.

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We are creating a Fragrance-Free Space which is free of smoke, fragrance and chemicals. This is in consideration of all with fragrance sensitivity and experience mild to serious irritation or allergic reactions to those items. Exposure to fragranced products can make it difficult to impossible for some attendees to participate or stay in the space. People with fragrance sensitivity often experience symptoms such as breathing difficulties (wheezing, a tight feeling in the chest, or worsening of asthma symptoms); headaches; nausea; hives and other skin irritations; and limitations in memory and concentration.

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We have asked the hosts of the building to clean the space at least 2 days prior to allow time for scents to fade. Our request for retreat staff and attendees:

  • Personal care products such as cologne, perfume, lotions, fragranced hair products and/or similar products are not to be worn.

  • Use of air fresheners, essential oils, incense, and candles will not used in the space.

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